Wildly Loved

This free series is full of small, actionable gestures to help your partner feel loved and appreciated.

👉 First, bookmark this page so you can return to it each day for the next 10 days. Then, set a daily reminder — in your calendar, on your to-do list, or even on a sticky note — to keep yourself on track.

🚀 Today’s goal is to kick things off with a small action that’ll set you up for success. You’ll write a little love note — but you won’t share it with your partner.

Imagine you do this series from start to finish. Write one or two sentences about what you hope your partner feels. For example:

• “Sarah. I hope you see that I love you deeply and that I put in the work to prioritize you. You might tear up, and I’d simply smile, feeling the quiet satisfaction of a job well done.”

• “Marco. I hope you laugh and smile — the kind where your eyes light up. I want us both to feel so grateful to have each other and as eager to surprise each other as we were on day 1.”

👉 Now, grab a pen and write yours down. Let it be your quiet intention for the next 10 days.

🚀 Today, you’ll create the first surprise love note for your partner to discover.

You’ll keep it super simple. Find a piece of scrap paper and write:

• “Hi {NAME}. I love you. Stay tuned for a few small surprises over the next few days!”

👉 Write the note and sign your name. Then, fold the note, write your partner’s name on the outside, and hide it somewhere they’ll find it soon (e.g. in their shoe, in their coat pocket, by their favorite mug).

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P.S. If your partner asks what’s going on, you get to choose how you frame it. You can be candid (“I found a series of little love gestures that I’m trying”) or coy (It’s a surprise! You’ll see!”). There’s no right or wrong option. Go with what feels most supportive. If you have questions, message me at josh@getgiddybox.com or 516-592-7682.

🚀 Today, you’ll go a little deeper. You’ll celebrate a trait you appreciate about your partner, anchored in a recent moment they showed that trait.

For example:

• “Layla, I really appreciate how empathetic you are. Last week, when your sister called about a tough situation at work, you stayed on the phone with her for hours. I could hear in your voice how much you cared.”

• “Han, your joyfulness is infectious. Last night, you were watching some YouTube shorts when I was brushing my teeth. I could hear you laughing and it made me smile.”

👉 Write the note and sign your name. Then fold it up, write their name, and hide it in a different hiding spot (e.g. in their sock drawer, by the TV remote, near the silverware).

🚀 With this note, you’ll mix things up, to keep things surprising and interesting.

Pick a form of non-sexual touch you’d both enjoy, like a massage, cuddling, or holding hands. You’ll turn it into a small coupon, with your partner’s name and a 48 hour expiration (so it actually gets used).

For example:

• “This coupon is good for a 5-minute shoulder, neck, or back massage. Expires on Tuesday.”

• “Valid for one cuddle session on the couch (blanket included). Redeem within the next 48 hours.”

• “This card entitles you to a walk outside, holding hands, no phones allowed. Expires on October 4.”

👉 Make the coupon and hide it somewhere for them to discover (e.g. under their pillow, in a couch cushion, taped to the bathroom mirror).

🚀 With this last note, you’ll go back in time and show your partner who they are to you.

Find a favorite photo of you two and share the story behind that photo. Anchor in concrete details, like what you saw, said, felt, or did.

For example:

• “One of my favorite memories with you, Amir, is when we went skiing on our fifth date. I was a little rusty and fell on my face at least a dozen times. You always waited for me and never complained about slowing down. When we saw your friends later that weekend, you told them how great of a job I did, and it made me beam.”

• “Jasmine, I’ll never forget the first time you visited my hometown. We got ice cream together on the boardwalk. Then, we took a selfie in front of the water, and I realized I had chocolate all over my face. We both started giggling, and I could feel in that moment how perfectly you fit into my life.”

👉 Write the note, sign, and seal it. Then, hide it in one last hiding spot (e.g. by their workstation, in their laptop or kindle, or in a book or magazine they pick up often).

🚀 For these next 3 days, you’ll move from words to actions. Your objective: quietly transform your home, one little corner at a time… without your partner noticing.

Your first mission: Bedtime Bliss.

Make the bed hotel-style. Smooth the sheets, fold the blanket, fluff the pillows. Set a glass of water on the nightstand and, if you have one handy, place a mint or chocolate on their pillow. Finally, leave a handwritten note that says “sleep tight” or “sweet dreams.”

👉 Do it when your partner isn’t around. Later, if they notice and ask, just smile and shrug like it’s always been that way.

🚀 Today, you’ll pull off another small, quiet, magical surprise for your partner — a Vanishing Act.

Find a nagging pile and make it disappear — mail, shoes, dishes, laundry, or random counter clutter.

👉 Slip in when your partner isn’t around. Clear it out and leave no trace. If they comment on it or ask what happened, play it cool. Smile, shrug, maybe even act a little surprised yourself.

🚀 This last secret mission — Fridge Fairy — is one more chance to turn an ordinary moment (opening the fridge) into a moment of delight for your partner.

Sneak into the fridge. Toss anything expired, wipe down a shelf or two, and line things up neatly. Get your partner’s favorite snack or drink and place it front and center. Finish the surprise with a handwritten note: “Cheers, from the Fridge Fairy.”

👉 Go ahead and do this when your partner isn’t around. If you’re able to, stop by a store, to get a treat that’s extra special.

🚀 For these last two days, you’ll let the kindness ripple outward, continuing to surprise your partner with different types of thoughtfulness and care.

Choose one of your partner’s family or friends that you’ve gotten to know. Think of a moment you’re grateful for or their role in your life. For example:

• “David, that dinner you hosted a few months back was such a highlight for both of us. Julian and I were looking forward to it for weeks. I loved meeting your friends and finally tasting your famous chocolate chip cookies. Just wanted you to know how much I appreciated it.”

• “Maria! Every time Juliana and I see you, I feel like I walk away lighter and laughing — you’ve got that effect on people. Just wanted to say I’m really glad you’re part of our world.”

👉 Send that person a short text. Let go of expectations. Your partner may never hear about the text you sent — and that’s fine. This isn’t about recognition or praise. It’s about showing gratitude and care, and trusting that, in some way, that energy will be felt.

P.S. If you’re feeling extra generous, text short notes to 2 different people!

🚀 Yesterday, you practiced loving your partner by caring for the people they love. Today, you’ll continue that theme, showing your partner (and their circle) that what matters to them, matters to you.

Figure out the birthdays of a handful of your partner’s closest friends and family. When their birthdays roll around, send a short text, with a favorite photo of you and them. For example: “Happy birthday Elijah! This pic popped up from last year and made me smile.”

👉 Jot the dates down in your calendar, on a post-it, or in a note on your phone. You can snoop around on Facebook, look at your calendar from years past, or ask another family member or friend to fill you in.

Way to go for all the care and effort you put into the past 10 days. Here’s a high five from afar 🙌

If this has gotten your partner smiling and feeling cared for, let’s keep it going. In Part 2, you’ll design a whimsical indoor picnic and create a bucket list full of shared adventures. All it takes is 10 minutes a day, for 10 days.

👉 To unlock Part 2, message me at 516-592-7682 or josh@getgiddybox.com. I’ll send you the password for free.